Humble Curiosity
“We’re happy with what we’ve got.”
Beautiful.
No need to push.
No need to convince.
Just breathe.
Lean back.
“Sounds like it’s working well.”
(Pause.)
Then, gently:
“Not sure about you, but I’ve heard some teams love [feature]. Others run into [potential issue]. How's that’s been for you?”
You’re not challenging.
You’re opening a window.
Because solutions only matter when there’s a problem.
And people don’t share pain when they feel judged.
But if they feel safe?
They’ll often walk through that window on their own.
No pressure.
No resistance.
Just humble curiosity.
Like a hand held open, not a fist.